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    Sep
    17

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    While at the hotel gym this morning and half-paying attention to CNN’s HLN, I saw a clip of a Philadelphia Phillies baseball fan catch a foul ball.  This is a once in a lifetime event that most fans never get to experience.  Many of us come close but, we seem to be one seat or one row away or we’re too slow bending over and a more nimble fan around us scoops up the baseball.

    After the middle-age man caught the ball, he immediately bent over and handed his cherished souvenir to a little girl who appeared to be about two years old who was sitting next to him (I’m assuming that it was his daughter).  What did the beautiful little girl do?  She did what most children of that age would do when you hand them a small ball. She immediately took the ball and threw it (right back onto the field)!

    The gift was gone forever!

    What did the man do?  He picked up the girl and gave her a huge hug and kiss with a big, beautiful smile on his face that said I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! It was a beautiful expression of unconditional love between a father and daughter.  He knew that she had no idea of how much he valued the gift – if only for a second or two.

    I began thinking about the cherished gift that the father gave to his daughter and how she innocently rejected the gift because she had no understanding of its value.  That thought led me to think about the God-given gifts that we’ve all received at birth and how we sometimes throw them back onto the field.

    How do we reject our gifts like the girl rejected the ball? Sometimes we hide the gift and don’t share it with the world. We keep it to ourselves. Sometimes we don’t develop the gift and use it to it’s full potential. Sometimes we give-up on the gift or forget about it like a new sweater that is lost at the bottom of a drawer or in the back of a closet.

    What are the unique gifts that you’ve been given that you know that you’ve been hiding, accidentally lost or have never developed up to their potential?

    Why not make a list of your special gifts and talents today?  After you do, decide how you can share those gifts with your family or your community or turn that special talent into your own business.

    You’re getting excited just thinking about it aren’t you?  When we fully utilize, nurture, develop and share the special gifts that have been given to us by someone who loves us very much, we feel like we’re living our purpose. We feel like we’re doing what we were meant to do. The smile appears on our face and our heart starts pumping with joy.

    There is only one you. Only you have your unique gifts and talents that were hand-delivered, specially wrapped and custom-made especially for you.

    Like the catching of the baseball was probably a once-in-a lifetime event, you and I are only certain of today and how we utilize our special gifts today.  If we neglected our gifts yesterday, God forgives us like the Father forgave and loves his daughter. We’ve been given the gift of today to manifest our special beauty.

    Open the gift today if you’ve left it unopened.  Take it out of the drawer or off the shelf if you’ve hidden it away.  Consult yourself and give careful thought about how that gift was meant to be used by God and share it with us.  You’ve been keeping it to yourself long enough.

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    Aug
    18

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    My 19-year old son played the organ and sang at 4 masses at church on Saturday and Sunday filling-in for the usual music ministers who both happened to be on vacation at the same time.  When I asked him how he did after the first service on Saturday afternoon, he said that he “wasn’t perfect”. I shared with him a lesson that I learned and implemented a while ago that has allowed me to persist and improve on a daily basis: “We’re striving for excellence, James–NOT perfection.”

    If I waited for “perfection” before I ever wrote, spoke or acted, I’d never do anything. It would be a constant state of paralysis!

    This philosophy allows us to live and act on a daily (minute-by minute) basis knowing that we don’t have to be perfect.

    I’m now singing the song from Human League :

    “I’m only human
    Of flesh and blood I’m made
    Human
    Born to make mistakes”

    Physical perfection is something that many people I know (self-included) strive for and rarely if ever achieve.  Val Willingham’s article on CNN.com today “Elusive search for cellulite cure continues” illustrates the point quite well.   Val chronicles a woman who is in her mid-40’s who eats well and exercises but, still has a problem with cellulite.

    Because cellulite can be genetic, it can still develop “whether they’re thin or heavy, a gym rat or a couch potato, cellulite is one of those things most women face,” says Dr. Howard Brooks who is quoted throughout the article.

    What does Dr. Brooks recommend in order to curb cellulite?

    • Quit smoking -smoking damages connective tissue
    • Watch your weight.  Fat is fat
    • Invest in a treadmill and exercise
    • Eat smart. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle decreases the appearance of cellulite

    One of my favorite pieces about the article was Dr. Howard’s candor referring to two FDA-approved laser treatments and massage: “But unfortunately, this isn’t permanent, and you need a lot of treatments.  There is no miracle.”

    Another concept that allows me to smile at myself and others who are working very hard  towards physical health with diet and exercise is the quote from the Bible that says that we were “created in the image and likeness of God.”  Because God doesn’t have a physical body and is neither male or female, it reminds me to focus on what image and likeness of God really means -to live in loving relationships with others, to use my “will” to choose freely the best possible good in every situation and to use my intellect to think in spiritual ways.

    If I do these things consistently, my less-than-perfect body somehow doesn’t seem to matter as much!

    Our bodies are the temples in which our “image and likeness of God” reside. We should choose to do our best to implement each of Dr. Brooks’ recommendations above: stop smoking, maintain the ideal weight for us, exercise consistently and regularly and eat smart.

    I do each of the above and still manage to have scrawny, non-muscular legs, little love handles around my waist and maintain too much fat around my chest.  I’m still striving for excellence instead of perfection in every area of life – including physical health.

    I was on the altar with my son at the 9AM mass on Sunday  morning and had to hide my tears of happiness as I listened to him sing and play.  He was EXCELLENT!

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